I'm kinda' in charge of my relationship, (I'm 13, GF's 15) because that's the way she wants it. She and I love eachother soooo much, we won't even let eachother buy anything for the other one. If one of my friends ask me to comeover, the first thing I do is ask my GF, and she says it's okay all the time, but I tell her it's not because she really doesn't want me to go, and I know it, but she makes me go because she wants me to enjoy things other than our relationship.