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Originally Posted by HayleyJenkins91  Hi guys... i'm new to this but i thought it would help me so i signed up. 've got a big problem. Please only answer if you've had sexual experiences and know how to help me out.
I've been with my boyfriend James for 9 months now and about a month ago we decided to have sex... Underage. We're both 15 so it's illegal but we're both ready.
We've had sex now about 6 or 7 times. The problem is that i don't enjoy sex. When he enters me each time we have sex it hurts. I really love him and am turned on by him so i don't know why i feel this way. It hurts for the first few minutes each time then it feels like nothing. I don't enjoy it or find it pleasurable. I've never cum during sex and desperately want to.
James is about 6 and a half inches so he's not small. I don't know what the problem could be. Sex is SO overrated! Is there a certain position which especially stimulates the G spot? PLEASE HELP! I'm afraid our realtionship will fall apart!  |
You've only had it a couple times, so it's going to hurt. The first couple times I did it it hurt, but then after a while it was fine. When he enters you, are you wet? Because if you're not and he has to force it in somewhat, that may be why it hurts you. Try having him figer you or give you a bit of oral before hand. If you can't cum during sex, don't really worry, a lot of women can't cum AT ALL. I can't cum during sex and don't really care that much that I can't because I can cum during oral. Every girl is different, so it's no big deal. Just keep experimenting with your partner and COMMUNICATE. If it doesn't feel good, tell him and try switching positions. Also - maybe try ribbed condoms? They feel pretty good, but I think they're a bit more expensive.
If you'd like to talk more or have questions feel free to PM me and I'll try to answer them or I'll look up answers for them. :]