Honestly, my only comment is that it really sounds like you need to get out of that relationship. Things are not the way they were before, and you've realized it. Now probably isn't a great time to be comparing yourself to his ex. I think you just need to let it be over. I dont think he's going to change, and I dont think there's any sense in waiting or trying to fix him. I just dont think its going to happen.

That said, I'm very sorry you're so upset. It really is hard, but I really do think it'd be good to get out and stay out.

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