There are comments that have struck me on this thread
number one: I agree that you shouldn't let anyone tell you how you identify. period.
Number two: people in homosexual relationships can have love and children
this is a very old concept. We're here, we're queer and a lot of people if not most are just fucking used to it
so get used to it
number three: never deny any attraction. If you are attracted to both sexes fine- acknowledge both. If you are attracted to your own sex, or the opposite sex; acknowledge that