Kudos to you. Thankyou so much for being a caring friend.

I do encourage you to try to get through to her, but you will not do that through excessive preaching or fighting. Tell her what you know, think, believe and that you care, and leave it at that. There's nothing mroe you can do, sadly.

Some people choose to let themselves get used and abused.. only THEY can make the choice to be with someone that will treat them with all the love and kindness they deserve.