As hard as I am sure it is for you, basically right now it is out of your hands. The best thing you can do, is offer your ex boyfriend support, and to make sure that he is handling it in the correct way. I'm sure right now he is really confused about a lot of things. Be sure that he does not take these threats 'lightly', and if things get out of hand it is always important to seek profesional help. Always keep in mind that we cannot solve other peoples issues, rather we attempt to help them help theirselves.

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