My dad is really controlling of me, too. He always gets what he wants by making me feel gulity. I'm not allowed to be with my friends on his weekend - he says "I never get to see you this is my weekend you need to spend time with me" but then he goes and spend time with his wife who he sees all of the time.

I really don't have any advice to give you. All I can say is I know what you're going through. I'm not close to my dad and I can't tell him anything because I know the way he gets but maybe if you think you could talk to your dad about it you should.

Good luck