1. I've only kissed a guy with tongue once and I had no clue what I was doing. I know there are a lot of sites out there that give information on that though.
2. Be yourself around her. Don't do too much PDA until you know her stance on it, though.
3. Movies are always good dates. Going out to eat can be nice too, lots of time to talk. There are a ton of things you can do date wise.
4. Aww, that would be sweet. =]
5. Cute surprises are always fun, like a note or something.

Good luck! =]