I don't think she means you're an asshole, she's hurt.. you just broke up with her. If I found out my boyfriend didn't love me anymore and was keeping it from me and I was in HER position i'd be really bitter about it. Right now she isn't understanding what you have gone through and I doubt she even knows, so she's mainly just worried about how she feels, can you blame her though?, she's hurt.

Eh, that's just what I think lol.

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