i don't think either of you should be making decisions about the babies, leave it up to the grownups because you are clearly incapable of doing this, as you keep changing your mind, howver you are still the parents so it's up to you

even though your parents are dissapointed in you they won't see you on the streets, your sister is probably your best bet, but if all else fails go to a friends, or even your ex boyfriends, he should have the decency to give the mother of his kid a home, if not only for the sake of his own children.

you obviously made a stupid mistake and i won't lecture you about it, remember these kids are going to need a stable home and someone who can look after them? are you really sure at 14 on your own you can do this? like you've said you don't think you could so are giving them up for adoption but also remeber you can't change your mind once it's done i can imagine that when you grow up your going to want to be able to look after your own children -but you can't, and you seem to liek changing your mind abotu what to do. You need a serious chat with your mum, your going to haver to do soem growing up within the next few months whether you like it or not

also i don't understand how he could only want to keep one, or even think you would, what happeend to loving both your kids equally? maybe it qould be easy for you, but for me to decide which one stays and which one goes... i couldn't do it