Don't go out with him in a relationship.

But I see no harm in just meeting this guy and you know, treating him as a friend. If he starts getting all lovey-dovey, jus tell him your not into that. But maintain that friend level.

Cos THEN, your family have the satisfaction of their 'plan working', you havent been forced into a relationship, you havent hurt his feelings AND you can say you tried their plans and it didnt work.

Sorrrrrrted