thats not always the best thing to do, when i did that it went pear shaped and belive me, it hurts alot when it goes wrong.

my advice, ask a female friend to try and put a 'hypothetical' question about you to her when they are both face to face. She'll be able to to tell if she feels the way you do.

hope it goes well

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