I just... can't deal with my parents anymore. They get psychotic whenever I have a boyfriend. They were horrible throughout my high school years when I started dating my current bf in my junior year, but it just keeps getting worse...

They basically found out we had sex beginning of my freshman year of college, and made my life a living hell over the phone or any time I was at home. When my grandmother died I was upset enough but my mom used the opportunity when I was home for the funeral to call me a whore at every chance she got.

When I am home, I barely even get to see my bf "legally..." meaning I have to lie to see him. He is basically a perfect guy-- Ivy league boy who treats me like a queen. There is nothing about him that they can complain about.

Now, just as my mom was getting over the whole sex thing, she found out (by snooping through my computer, I might add) that I went and visited him at his college on weekend in February. (I'm in college, too, by the way.) She called me and flipped on me, telling me that I can find somewhere else to live, that she's not going to pay my tuition, I'm a big whore, etc. and how I'm against the bible, a disgrace to the family, on and on.

I am so sick and tired... He's my freaking boyfriend, we want to get married (he would do so now but I want to wait until we graduate college, since we couldn't live together right now anyway), I love him, he is a wonderful man, I'm 19 years old, yet I know my mother will make my life a living hell since she just started "trusting" me and now I've gone and ruined her "trust" again.

What can I do? My boyfriend is fully behind me and says he will talk to them for me, but what can I say that will even make a difference? My mom is CONVINCED that ALL MEN are only in relationships for sex-- she can't BELIEVE that someone could actually care about me. She constantly hints that he's probably cheating on me, doesn't actually care, pressures me all the time to break up with him, and if all else fails, tells me I'm too young to be serious about anyone.

Helpppp meeee. I'm going home in three weeks and I know it's going to be HELL.