Why would you want to believe in god, he wouldnt help you if he could.

Anyway to the topic at hand, ask your father for tips, I learnt how to sweet talk from my father and it has yet to fail me, as he sleeps around now he's had a divorce too.

Get some interesting hobbies, this boosts character.

You don't need family, I only see my mother, father and sister are like once every few months.

If you tried to get involved in those games, even if your the last picked, you still wouldve had a laugh, eventually get to know them better and then not be last picked.

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