Ok, here is my experiance, lol I talk to this guy on aim everyday, and I really really like him (we met in person once, and talked a while) well, its soo much easier to talk if you have inside jokes, and know things about each other, but its also harder because you can't think of what to say, so get to know things about her, but save some Q's for in person. It bugs me to death, that my crush dosn't say much on aim, and I have to do most of the talking, but we both agreed, that I can think of things better, lol. If I were her, I would want you to ask me to hang out, and follow through on it. Don't say things and not mean them good luck!