I guess but the thing is i have tried recently tried to reach out to him and by being friendly and saying hello are things on facebook but he never responded or anything which to me shows that he could careless i learned that if someone wanted to keep ties with you they would have found a way to reach out back but he failed to do so so i got the hint that its a no unfortunaetly he wants to live in the past so its not my problem i'd rather move on. His brother and i were friends as well but he twisted some things around now his brother wants nothing to do with me as well what if he does the same with his mom and i lose her as a friend too.