Thanks for the replies everyone. I heard the other day though, through some of her friends that the relationship she is in is dying. I hardly ever see them together, during lunch they're usually nearly on opposite ends of the room and I just never see her with him except the first time.

What I forgot to tell you was that she sort of wanted to go out with me when i first came (30 weeks ago) but i think it was more of a joke to her own year, (especially the boys), well maybe she was serious about it but it would'nt have mattered then because i was really not ready for anything at all.

I'm going to talk to her soon and i'l see how it goes

thankyou for the advice