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Originally Posted by captain_kurenai  Hmm .. how did she say it ... well, I was jsut talking about it and she kind of just said "I think you two should break up" and that was it. I asked her why and she said "Well, it just seems like a waste of time since you two don't see each other much" |
If she just said that's what she thinks, I don't see the problem with it. Like I said, she was just expressing her opinion. People have said that about my relationships, and I've said that about others'.
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Originally Posted by captain_kurenai Me and my boyfriend actually talked about that once and we both agreed that those kind of relationships just .... aren't for us. I was in one and it kind of sucked because I'm not exactly like that and my ex was and it bothered me a lot because it felt smothering. But that's just us ...
"How can I miss you if you don't go away?" lol |
*shrugs* Personally, I don't see how you can love someone and not be dying to at least talk to them regularly, if not be with them, and how it doesn't kill you to not be affectionate (although I realise the latter is something some enjoy while others don't). But talking is...the most basic part of the whole thing. It's how you start loving someone to begin with and how you keep a relationship going. Like, I about die if I have to go two days without talking to my boyfriend. Even one day is hard on me (I'm clingy, though, which I'll outright admit).
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Originally Posted by captain_kurenai In the beginning of our relationship we had a lot of time for each other, but when college started and we both started working we didn't have much time. My parents have been real nice and before they never let me go to his house, but now they do as long as his parents are home. Only thing that sucks is that the place he lives is pretty out of the way (through the valley and up the mountain ... almost literally) and he usually works on weekends and we both hate his boss because his boss overworks him and is a real @$$ about giving him days off (thank god he's quitting). Heck, even this summer he's got a bit of summer school to do and I gotta look for a new job too.
I guess the fact that we're kind of distant outside of the bedroom makes it seem like our relationship ain't all that great. |
It's hard for me to say since I can't observe it. I just know what I've been through and how I feel.
~Maggot