see a few years ago, i liked this guy, alot, but was afraid to tell him, after a few months of telling myself i have to tell him or i wont ever have a chance, i told him i liked him, but the day before another girl told him she likedhim n already told her he would get with her and that if things ever didnt work out between him and her he would let me know. they are still together now though.
so some time later, this other guy told me he liked him and wanted to get with me, but i wasnt sure i liked him so i hesitated, again, and after months of flirting i finally told him i would meet him ( kiss) and see how it goes, but i hesitated even more then because i was afraid, i dnt get with many guys, so theni found out he got with this girl because he wasnt sure if i wanted to be with him or not he jus assumed i didnt (which is fair because i didnt show any signs) , now i realise what a great guy he is , i am so fickle, n want what i cant have, but its killin me not having him , should i tell him how i feel or let it slide like last time, i keep making the same mistake and i dont get many offers for guys as it is, barely any actually, why do i keep lettin these opportunitys pass me by. xxx
And also, since i have only had like one relationship i need to know, people always say guys love confidence, but i dont have much and i dnt know how much confidence is to much confidence, and should i flirt more, i know if i dont get more guys i will become hung up on the same one, and probably end up seeming desperate to him , help
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