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muhkenzaay · 06-04-2008, 04:51 PM

ok, so recently i've noticed something wrong with one of my best friends family and they way they've been acting towards me. everything used to be fine and they treated me like i was their other daughter. but then all of the sudden, i've got the feeling that they hate me.

supposedly they don't trust me, and i'm a "bad influence" on her. i dont drink, i don't do anything bad and i actually thought i was a pretty good influence. i try to have conversations, but every time i do, i get turned away as if they don't want to have a conversation. it's weird to me, because we've been friends for so long and i would think that if they didn't trust me or if they thought i was a bad influence they wouldnt necessarily want me to hang out with her anymore. i can't act like theres nothing wrong, maybe i shouldnt go over there anymore. but then that doesn't solve anything.

i was also told that i act like im always right. i don't mean for it to come off as ignorance or being a bitch. im not like that in any way and im not about being a snot and making everyone feel that they're at a lower level than i am. but i do also know that everyone likes to be right, even if their opinion is utterly ridiculous, nobody likes being shot down and being told "no your not right." everyone likes being right one time or another. so i dont think that i should be rediculed by the fact that i like being right, because everyone does.

i've lost a lot of my friends this past year going into high school and i cant afford to lose any more. i dont think im losing her as a friend, i think im losing her parents respect for me as a person and i dont want that. i don't know what i should do.

help?

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