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Old 06-13-2008, 08:43 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Re: Why do they hate me?

Wow.
That was a bad day.
But you don't need to feel like your the only one. Everyone gets it at some point.
I know how you feel because I have girls like that at my school who used to do exactly the same sort of thing to me and to others.

Instead of letting it get me down, because it is exactly what they want, you should hold your head up high and ignore them. Don't speak to them, don't look at them. And do the same for everyone who gives remarks from what they've heard.
I know how you feel it pisses me off too.

I found that when I ignored them and did what I wanted to do, wore what I wanted to wear and became who I wanted to be, they ignored me because I wasn't giving them the satisfaction they wanted.
They wanted me to be miserable and hate myself.
They do this because they hate themselves to be honest and try to make everyone else's day crap just so that theirs is good.

Don't listen to them and do whatever you want to do.
Don't even acknowledge their presence when they say things - walk on by like they weren't there.
I know insults get you down - they do with everyone - but I found by ignoring and doing what I wanted made them leave me alone because what thye said didn't affect me.


Be confident, smile and ignore the bitches.
You will feel better.

Hope this helps.
R xxx
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