06-16-2008, 03:09 PM
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Last Online: 11-30-2008 05:12 PM Join Date: Apr 2008
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Money: 39 | Re: Bestfriend Attention vs. Girlfriend Attention When i tried talking to BBB about it, she just blew it off and told me i was just the rebound and that i was there when her relationship went down the crapper. i wasnt going to say that i wasnt a rebound guy because i didnt want to seem full of myself. So i dropped it, BBB is the type of girl where if she doesnt want to talk about it, she wont until shes ready or just wont ever. If you do try and make her talk about it she usually gets defensive and shut off completely.
I have talked to her about... her feelings towards me, her ex and the currents thoughts. Sorry if i didnt make clear that we tell each other alot. She said that when her ex dumped her, i was her number 1 guy and it upset...? her that she wasnt my number 1 girl. Because of her attention seeking behaviour it pisses her off and as i said before, and we get into little fights that dont last longer than a few days. I dont want her to like me and if she does its gonna drive me away from her which is fustrating.
Everytime i go down and ask her whats wrong shes blows it off as if its nothing she wont open up because basically she hates being open about her relationship feelings. So she wont tell me whats up and the only thing she tells me is that shes annoyed about how im always with AAA, but whenever i spend time with her she always mocks me and tells me how i shouldnt be around her because i have a girlfriend now. *fustration*
But yeah BBB is pretty out of control with attention seeking but i dont know how to let her see that just cause im with AAA doesnt mean im not gonna bail on her, but she has to know that AAA is my girlfriend and i want to spend time with AAA over her |
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