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When i tried talking to BBB about it, she just blew it off and told me i was just the rebound and that i was there when her relationship went down the crapper. i wasnt going to say that i wasnt a rebound guy because i didnt want to seem full of myself. So i dropped it, BBB is the type of girl where if she doesnt want to talk about it, she wont until shes ready or just wont ever. If you do try and make her talk about it she usually gets defensive and shut off completely.
I have talked to her about... her feelings towards me, her ex and the currents thoughts. Sorry if i didnt make clear that we tell each other alot. She said that when her ex dumped her, i was her number 1 guy and it upset...? her that she wasnt my number 1 girl. Because of her attention seeking behaviour it pisses her off and as i said before, and we get into little fights that dont last longer than a few days. I dont want her to like me and if she does its gonna drive me away from her which is fustrating.
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Makes much more sense now knowing you did talk to her about it.
BBB is jealous. End of story. She wants attention, by you talking to her, she is getting that attention. But perhaps you should just one day tell her EXACTLY what you have just stated....
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So she wont tell me whats up and the only thing she tells me is that shes annoyed about how im always with AAA, but whenever i spend time with her she always mocks me and tells me how i shouldnt be around her because i have a girlfriend now. *fustration*
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If she doesn't listen or talk about it, you have an immature friend, in that case you will need to consider what to do next, perhaps distancing yourself a little bit from her. Might piss her off, but your message will be clear, she needs to know how to start acting like a friend.