Since I came into highschool, i'm in grade 11 now, i've been sort of viewed as the guy thats not big on girls, all about sports etc. I'm not too popular, I know a lot of people and i'm in the middle, like not unpopular but at the same time not popular.

For the girls, I had a bad incident before high school, so now I tend not to comment on girls, and just keep my love life to myself so people get the impression that I don't like girls or something. And probably thats why I don't have a girlfriend. And people don't associate me with having fun, or having a good social life, therefore I don't have a good social life. So all of this is making me realize that I'm missing out on a lot.

I'm never told about parties or invited to go someones cottage or anything like everyone else does, I don't have a girlfriend, not too much fun, and some people that I know don't even say hi to me in the halls. I want to change to be the opposite of what I said.

SOmething to do with it might be that i'm a bit shy and what I've noticed is that, my sense of humour isn't so good. This is probably because, well everyone who has a good one, are like talking about how they got that from south park or simpsons or something, and my parents never let me watch those kinds of things, and I don't really have time for that.

So what can I do, I want to be more out there, better social life and get more of a status for my last year of high school. I want to be able to speak to all the girls and get a girlfriend sometime, but whats putting me down is that I can't even approach girls that have caught my eye but I don't know, and because I never tell anyone about who I like some of them don't even realize taht I like them. Summers here so that why i'm asking this right now, so I can use the summer to my advantage.