Okay, so if any of you saw my other thread I am probably the worst social person ever... I can't talk to girls at all. Talking should just be going with the flow like everyone says but it doesn't for me. Last night my best friends girlfriend and the girl I like wanted me and him to come over(I'm not sure which one or maybe both actually wanted me to come with) and we did but unfortunately I said.... um... nothing pretty much the whole time pretty much the whole time I said something to the girl I like about twice which was saying hi, I think I asked her one question when we went on a "spirited" drive in my car, and I said bye... I know I'm an idiot but at least I'm trying more than before to talk to people. It was even worse because it was supposed to be me her my friend and his gf but we ended up with like three other people : / I texted her saying next time we need to hang out with less people so we can actually talk and I apologized for being so shy. Anyways for now I want to stick with texting and I am gonna try and hang out with her next week(Mon. or Tue.) But I have no idea what to say(again going with the flow isn't working so well for me...) I need some MAJOR pointers lol please anything will help even the smallest details and I know pretty much everyone texts so hopefully I can get some real help here cause I need it... So far I usually am just like 'how are you doing' 'what are you up too?' 'doing anything cool today?' and thats usually pretty much it lol but I cant keep sending the same texts can I? I really need help so ya let me know any advise you have...