It's not sex you want it seems, but having a girlfriend to cure your loneliness. You also probably want eye candy.
If you are horny and need to ejaculate, ejaculating into a penis-shaped container is not much different than ejaculating into a vagina.
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Originally Posted by TGH  Since I was like 12 i always planned to lose my virginity with a girl I really love so I could always look back on it as a good time, and not just a random fuck with a slut or something.
But I'm now 15 and most of my friends are losing their virginity (some in non-relationships) alot in relationships.
I currently don't have a gf and its unlikely I will as none of the girls I am friendly with these days I like that much. And each month it seams my level for sex is decreasing, like it used to be I'd have to go out with a girl for a year before i fucker her, and it keeps going down by a month everynow and then. Now i would say only like 3 weeks/a month before we fucked.
So should I hold out for a gf and wait a while till i pop my cherry, or is it overrated and it would be orite to go out and just fuck and get it over with so I could do it more often after. |
Sex could not be that very pleasureable.
Suppose, for example, you were out on a swimming pool area on a cold night. And you see a hot spa / jacuzzi (hot-water swimming pool).
You dip your toes into the water to see if it's hot and it feels good since you're cold.
You dip your penis into the jacuzzi, then your penis feels good.
But the thing is, your penis is only a tiny portion of your entire body.
Now, suppose you decide to step into the jacuzzi so the water goes up to your neck. So that your head is only out.
Then like, 95% of your body is in water and it feels good.
What is the pleasure of only sticking your penis into the jacuzzi on a cold night? If the penis is less than 5% of your body, it's really not that pleasureable.
Ever wonder why we don't go to massage parlors to massage our hands? But instead, we go to get back massages?
And so and so forth.
Neal C.