Could you try to get your Mom to talk to him? Maybe get her on your side, try to talk some reason into him? That always worked for me.

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brodie: ladies and gentleman, this tall drink of water headed my way is a pillar of the shopping community who informed me earlier today of a nefarious plan of his to screw my girlfriend in an extremely uncomfortable place
gil: what, like the back of a volkswagen? -MALLRATS