so im hanging out with this guy, i hook up with him sometimes...he says things like "i miss you"...and "hey gorgeous" and stuff...but i feel like hes a player cuz he hangs out with other girls...they could be just friends, but im worried hes doing the same thing with other girls.. One night he is asking me to meet his family and go to the movies...holding my hand and kissing me almost like we are together...but then sometimes he says things like "oh the other night i was hitting on this chick." .,..why would i want to hear that?...does he sound like a player to you, or what?