Yeah, I'd let your cousin do what they've gotta do, but let them know that if it gets worse, you're going to have to say something, because you still care about him, and you don't want to see him fuck everything up. If he appreciates your concern, then sit back and see what he does with his life. If he says Up Yours, say it right back and let him do what he needs to do. If he wants to ruin his life, let him. Then you'll be the good one!

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