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Old 08-05-2010, 10:41 AM   #1
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question from a guy to girls

im not quite sure how to randomly aproach a girl if i hav no idea who she is, if shes in a relationship or not, or anything. i dont know how to tell if shes interested in me either. im pritty lonely right now, i think i need a girl. like seriously. im not the kinda guy that will cheat on or mistreat a girl. i just want to love a special lil gurl who will love me and we can spend time with each other together. but im not sure how to talk to a girl or approach her. you girls probly understand wat i mean.
no i dont want guys to answer my question or judge me, i just want to here from girls cuz they know themselves best
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Old 08-05-2010, 04:27 PM   #2
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Re: question from a guy to girls

Dude. You are just me I feel exactly the same way and I'm looking forward to seeing some girls reply
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Re: question from a guy to girls

You're 14, you're expecting way too much out of a girl the same/close to your age, trust me, what you're looking for is hard to find(very hard to find) and you'll only get hurt in the process.
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Old 08-05-2010, 08:30 PM   #4
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Re: question from a guy to girls

The fact that you're looking for a girl is the mistake here. A relationship is often (not always, I know a lot of scumbags with girls) the sign of strength. When you have fixed your problems, your insecurities, your "flaws", and when you can be proud of who you are and the life that you lead, you will find girls attracted to you.

It's just how it works. Work on yourself for now
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Re: question from a guy to girls

What that guy said ^^

But also, girls are such bitches at this age. I'd know.
Don't let the fact that you don't have a girl make you feel lonely. It's actually better you don't for now, because girls, most of them, love a guy who is sweet, but who has never had a girlfriend before - it shows the girl you haven't just fallen for anyone in the past.

Good luck. <3
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Old 08-06-2010, 12:26 AM   #6
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Be creative and take the initiative. Girls do not like guys who are not confident in most cases. Girls are not going to wait for you.
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Be creative and take the initiative. Girls do not like guys who are not confident in most cases. Girls are not going to wait for you.
True dat.
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Old 08-06-2010, 01:27 AM   #8
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The fact that you're looking for a girl is the mistake here.
I guess that is the mistake.

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When you have fixed your problems, your insecurities, your "flaws", and when you can be proud of who you are and the life that you lead, you will find girls attracted to you.
So you're saying girls will just flock to him?

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It's just how it works.
Sure it is.

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Work on yourself for now
Anyways, my point is none of that matters (confidence, non-insecurites, egoism), if girls don't know you, amirite?
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Re: question from a guy to girls

Don't know about you because i am extremely lonely and have been for months and months now, no friends....little family which you can only be with for so long. Myself i reckon having a girlfriend could make me happier and have something to actually wake up for instead and look forward to something for the first time in a long time.

You got it much easier than most people who like some girls. A lot of people claim they have a crush or have fallen for their friends which is risky buisness.

If she hasn't noticed you then i wouldn't count on waiting for her to make the first move. You have a couple of options,

1. Get the confidence and just ask her out upfront.
2. Try and get talking with her first to make sure your personalities are the same.
3. Once you get talking start to flirt a little, by then she should get the idea that you like her. And if she likes the attention then chances are good that she wouldn't mind going on a date or getting closer to you.

Choose whichever you want, you have nothing to lose if you ask her upfront, just be understanding with her and she may not mind talking to you more and decide if she actually likes you. Whatever you do don't hold it in otherwise it will get worse and worse.

Best of luck
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Re: question from a guy to girls

Well, I think you're best bet, is to get to know a girl first. That way it will answer all your questions of if she's single, whether or not she's interested in you, and so on.

Now approaching a girl doesn't have to be random. Well, perhaps a little, but you can make that go away. Have some reason for going up to her. School related question, like do you know the homework for... then continue to make conversation. Get to know the girl first, and get comfortable with her. In order to tell if she is interested, flirt with her, and see if she flirts back. It is a pretty good way to tell if she is interested in you or not. Then attempt to ask her out.
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Typically you have better luck if you are not obsessed with being in a relationship. If you are lonely and wanting to be with a girl without a certain girl in mind, then chances are you will fall in love with the idea of having a girl rather than the actual girl herself. If you are desperate it typically shows, and I find that is a major turn off with females. Confidence is key, and if you want something you just have to go for it. Usually the issue with approaching girls is that one thinks too much and never acts. In matters of the heart it is better to act rather than overanalyze.
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Re: question from a guy to girls

i don't care about if a girl is hot or not

i like there personalllity

unfortunatly most grls don't seem to agree








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Re: question from a guy to girls

you just got to talk to them and be flirty ask for there number become friends before something serious
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Just be like "hey, whats up", whats the worst that can happen?
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Be creative and take the initiative. Girls do not like guys who are not confident in most cases. Girls are not going to wait for you.
does that mean i'm going to be a loner for life? 0.o <-- because i cannot overcome any of those feats(no its not a typo) >.>
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