How much do looks matter?(for boys)

sexii_brendi · 10-01-2007, 11:18 AM

Whats more important to you, the personality, or the looks? and what do you look for in both?

Athanatos · 10-01-2007, 11:25 AM

Well for me, its kinda both. For personality, she would have to be..... Well....

Ok looks, not too much for hot, or sexy. But cute and sexy. Im not too picky. >_>

gogogodzilla · 10-01-2007, 03:17 PM

These questions always make me laugh. Both are necassary in a relationship and people really do hate to admit it. Of course, the emotional connection is by far incredibly more important. However, an aesthitically pleasing significant other is sadly required to keep the eye from straying.

Well, as for myself; I really don't put priority on looks. After all, you can't fix stupid.

Shiroitenshi · 10-01-2007, 03:32 PM

^ Very true ^

HonestAdvice · 10-01-2007, 09:40 PM

Yes, both are necessary for a relationship. However, if this worries you, remember this fact (even though you've heard it many times before): Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. People who I find to be incredibly cute are not cute to my friends and vice versa. So I wouldn't be too fixed on worrying about looks. The person that is right for you will be attracted to you because you are you, not because you try to make yourself look and act like someone else. If you try to do that to impress someone, then you're going to find that the relationship you get with that person will not be satisfying and will crumble apart. Hope this helps!

methsnax · 10-02-2007, 01:24 AM

Both. If they aren't attractive most likely you won't bother even talking to that person, but if it turns out looks are all they have then a good roll in the sack is all you'll get from it.

Downfall · 10-02-2007, 02:01 AM

Attraction is always a plus. However, if you can make me laugh I will pretty much love you forever. . Have to have some form of a brain also and don't be afraid to be yourself no matter how weird or random you are. The randomist and weirdest girls are the most attractive in my opinion and most fun to be around .

sexii_brendi · 10-02-2007, 07:41 AM

Well, I was just curious to know what you guys would say, but i agree that to make a realtionship work you need both, and that everyone has different tastes in people.

Torn · 10-02-2007, 07:43 AM

Personality > Looks.

methsnax · 10-02-2007, 11:03 AM

Torn is a liar or a fat ugly fucking sac of shit.

pdonket · 10-02-2007, 06:18 PM

I agree with someone above (yeah, too lazy to quote) about looks reeling you in, personality holding you there. I need both. I'm obviously not gonna start chasing a terribly ugly person.

MME1122 · 10-03-2007, 03:52 AM

gotta have both, but if i had to picks looks or personality im not sure which i would pick.

girls that are super girly i dont like.

i dont like girls that wear tons n tons of makeup.

n the have to be shorter then me

other then that im not 2 picky...

i like cute more sexy...but personality is more important then looks. If i like someone a lot, i wont care as much about their looks.

Plink · 10-03-2007, 09:19 AM

In my opinion I think that personality weighs a lot more than looks. For instance, I'm talking to this really attractive girl right now. I don't like her that much because she isn't interesting. At all.

If I like a girl and she has a great personality then it makes up for the looks. The girl has to be cute at least.

Overall Looks<Personality imo.

DagoFlip · 10-03-2007, 12:08 PM

i mean, i really dont want to sound like a stereotypical chauvinist pig....but im a looks guy, BUT i dont like a girl who's personality sucks

but if I had to choose one over the other, it would be looks

methsnax · 10-03-2007, 10:19 PM

You want the sexy package with something inside. After all you aren't about to open a package that's got shit smeared all over the outside (unless you are desperate).