Well theres a girl, cliche i know. Anyway we ahve been really good friends now for a couple of years. We are really close, but i think, or thought more like brother sister. But ive grown confused lately, i still feel this bond, but i cant tell if she does, also, i fell like this closeness is leading to feelings i may have for her. Anyone have advice on what i can do to test this bond, and waht i should do about my growing feelings for her? She is beautiful with and a rather observable 1 in a million personality, and because of this most men she has tried to befriend have ended up not really having intentions of friendship. I feel like thats what made us so close originally, i really did just respect her as a friend, but now im not so sure what to think or what to do.

At this point, I wouldn't do anything. If you're not sure about your feelings for her, the best thing to do is wait until you can be sure. Then you'll be able to decide what to do beyond that more easily.

~Maggot

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if you have a relationship, that could screw up the friendship. even suggesting something like that. you have to figure out if the risk is worth it.

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If she sees you as a friend and no more you're stuffed.
If you want to see if she feels the same way back try and flirt with her a bit...if it doesn't work don't do it again and back off to save the friendship.

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i've been really close friends with this guy for a few years now and almost a year ago he told me he liked me... the one thing i have to say is that if you actually like her don't be afraid to tell her.. because if you're such great friends it won't ruin the friendship. we were awkward for like... a day and we've gotten over it and are still amazing friends.