aww im soo sorry...i know this isn't easy for you at all..

This is a time of your life where you get to be reflective. You get to concentrate on you and improving your own life.

Look at the positives of being single:
1. You have more time for yourself
2. YOu don't have to be responsible for someone else
3. You are now allowed to flirt and pick up girls
4. You don't have to depend on anyone or have anyone depend on you
5. When you're ready, you can have a fresh start with a relationship with someone else, get first date/ first kiss sparks, etc

Remember what you've learned with your last relationship, and see how you as a person has grown.

And lastly, try not to dwell too much on this. It is a stage of your life that most people go through

"it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"

for every month you date someone, it takes about a week to get over here (for the most part). so 16 months you dates. You'll be fine in 16 weeks or 4 months.

In the meantime, the first few weeks will be the worst so just spend time with yoru friends. dont talk about her b/c that's just lame. just try to forget her. it'll be hard at first, so the only thinkg you can do initially is not talk about her. you can also try to find another girl (aka rebound girl) to help you out.

rebound girls are no strings attached. have it in your head that she is just a temp, and you'l lbe fine. let her know too like a friends with benefits deal

aww i am very sorry to hear that! i'm sure everything will work out =)

get laid, thats it just get laid.. well probably not the right thing. I know what you mean, i just got out of a 10 month relatioship. And well that was a month or 2 ago, and im over it. It was hard as hell, but i kinda took everything(letters) she gave me and stuck them in a box and ductaped it shut. We're still best friends, well as much as we can get, but it helped me to forget..

Sucks dude, but theres no real advice to give to help you get over it. You get over things in your own time, in your own way sweetie.

Get a few friends over, and talk about your feelings (ROFL) or get drunk, watch some tv, eat something, scratch your crotch, burp, and finally top that off with throwing up all day with a bad headache.

@Teh
LAWL i like the way you do it...

Yeeah there is really nothing you can do other then guess what DING DING DING.. your a free man.. do what ever the f you want.. get drunk, and do some crazy shit, and not owrry about your g/f being mad..

another thing is you might just want to be her friend.. take some time away.. and then try it.. i know my ex makes a good friend, espically when i need help with other girls, she tells me what i need to do, we kinda got up to that point. But yeah try to get to be her friend..

Oh sorry to hear that too.
I was only with my ex for 6 months and i felt awful when it was over. I feel terrible whenever i lose anyone! Especially someone special.
Yeah, it will take time, but you will gradually learn to deal with it, even though it may not seem that way now
Theres always cance you can become close again, who knows you might make a very good relationship together in the future, even if its just as being best friends!
But yeah, you may feel you really needed a partner and that person was HER, but it wasnt meant to be and you will just accept that in time
Being single is less pressure and stress i agree. But i often feel i need someone so its understandable you may have needed someone too.

thanks guys for all your replies, and yeah i know it depends a lot on me on how i can get over her, im doing a lot better now though and yeah i did talk to her online and so we probly will end up being friends, as for the drunk part ill have to pass lol i dont drink/Smoke but i really appreciate all your replies guys!

Really?
It took me much longer than 6.5 weeks to get over me breakin up with james.