so i've been dating the same guy for 14 months and i've had a wondering eye lately. There is this cute guy at school that i've been hanging around with a lot and we get along great and i REALLYY like him....but i dont know what to do...i like my boyfriend but i cant stop thinking about the guy at school! help?

Choose which one is better for you, but if you dump your boyfriend right now, and ask the guy at school, and he says no, your f*cked.

You are confused obviously.
Like Bear said, choose who is best for you.
Just don't do the whole "two-at-a-time" thing,
it never works out.

do you know how the other guy feels about you? If he has no feelings for you, than breaking up with your bf wouldn't be smart.

maybe its just a crush with this guy that will pass also. If not, do you think you would like him more than your current bf?

thank you...your soo right

If you have a wandering eye, fact is.. you don't like your current boyfriend all that much.

Which also means that you get into relationships your not all that committed too. And if you get into the habit of gettign into relationships you do not remain committed and faithful, you are only asking trouble for yourself in the future when you do find someone you love.

If you ask me, I personally believe you should put a stop on dating. Right now any boyfriend you might have probably won't last over a few years. It will cause drama and stress, emotionally drain you... most highschool relationships do not last. And if it isn't real love, if it isn't going to last, is it worth giving yourself away? Is it worth your emotional health to suffer from break up after break up?

If the current year was in the 1950s, I would have given the same response as tessa.

Okay this is gunna sound REALLY bad and people are gunna hate me, but I think u shud ask this guy out (while wit ur bf). If he say yes dump ur bf and if he say no u still got ur current dude. I know this sounds awful and it's nit 100% foolproof, but it's at least sumthin.

lol ya


but i agree with phuck.

I think that you need to test the water...i.e find out more about this guy that u crush on. Hav u got to kno his personality? Do you have alot in common etc etc...u need to find out all these details otherwise it might just be a physical attraction. Find this out and if its yes to the questions, then ask yourself if you feel more connected and attracted to him than ur bf.

Hope that makes things a little clearer sweetie!

office gal 07 x

That must be hard, i can understand.
I fancy lots of people but only one is special in a relationship way.

yeah, that is pretty messed up........

yeah thats really messed up if he finds out your gonna be dumped so fast, then your going to regret it