Please help!!!

parthonon · 10-16-2007, 10:56 PM

I know this girl, who I love, and I don't know what to do about this problem!

I met her at the homecoming dance this year. She had a boyfriend, but I knew she liked me. Well, she also had an ex that she still had feelings for.
yesterday, she said that she was gonna talk to him, and now their going back out. the sad part for me is, is that the guy is my cousin. I mean well, but I do care about her, and i knew that i was close to going out with her.
Now i feel like a jerk for how i feel. I told her whatever made her happy made me happy, and it's kinda true, but it's hard be cause he is my cousin.

Please respond with any advice or otherwise help...

thanx,
parthonon

Phuck Buddy · 10-16-2007, 11:30 PM

you don't fuck with family. stay away from the girl.

besides...you dont love her. you have a crush on her. you dont fall in love with someone you just meet. you dont even know her that well.

parthonon · 10-17-2007, 02:01 AM

I do love her...

I've went to all her volleyball games, went on a "date", and i know alot about her.

As for the family part, I think your right. Leave it as friends for now, and wait until they breakup.

thanks,
parthonon

Phuck Buddy · 10-17-2007, 02:56 AM

wow...all of her volleyball games?

assassinROW · 10-17-2007, 08:30 AM

WOW!!! ALL OF THEM??? (roflcopters)

I dont care if you went to all her games, it still doesn't mean you love her. You love someone when you share something deep and intimate with them, thats when you can say you love them. Its just this whole LOVE thing...
But stay away from Cousins, the whole family things can blow up bigger then you want it to. Think about it, your relation to him is threw a brother or sister of your dad, that creates tensions.. stay AWAY!!

Mayank · 10-17-2007, 10:42 AM

Dont forget that its the crush that you have no someone at first and once you start going out, you start loving.

But how can you say she liked you aswell? Signs? Like what type of signs? If its not too personal, you may want to share, it may help. We all go through some types of problems, and if you need help, share everything.

You will need to know if she really love your cousin, if loves dearly, then dont interrupt, because it might not work...you may end up losing both.

parthonon · 10-17-2007, 07:37 PM

She told me that she loved me more than the guy she originally was going out with when i met her. we were writing back and forth ever day in a notebook b4 she went out with her ex. we just went to a movie this last sunday, and it was fun. she told me that she had alot of fun too. and yes, I did go to every volleyball game since i met her. I also know one of her biggest secrets.