Girl In Serious Need!!!

Xx_SiErRa_xX · 10-17-2007, 06:08 AM

Alright there's this guy in my school who I THINK I may really like, but I'm not sure. I've known him since last year and I'm pretty sure he likes me I've seen a few signs, but nothing major. We've flirted a very teeny bit, but that's it. I'm very fresh to this whole dating process. I've only had 1 bf before and it was more out of pity, and cruelty (another girl that liked him was close by when he asked me and she was always very mean to me). I know that sounds awful, but he was using me to get closer to someone else. So anyways WHAT DO I DO!?!?!

Torn · 10-17-2007, 06:15 AM

Well...

RUN, FORREST, RUN!

assassinROW · 10-17-2007, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Torn

Well...

RUN, FORREST, RUN!

Yeah pretty much.. thats not the type of guy you want to be friends with.. pleanty more out there. But yeah, if he did that its mean, but he may not have meant to do that. Some times guys will try to be friends with another girls because there to scared to try and go ask the girl they like. And they dont even know what they did.

Phuck Buddy · 10-17-2007, 11:55 PM

take your flirting to the next level or tell him you like him.

tessa_s212 · 10-17-2007, 11:57 PM

Have you considered waiting until you are older? Most guys your age(guessing about 14?) are simply not mature enough to trully care about another person and treat them kindly. If you don't want to get hurt, your best bet is to wait two years or so until you can find a guy that has finally matured and is willing ot be committed to someone, instead of playing all those silly dating games or simply looking for sex.

Xx_SiErRa_xX · 10-18-2007, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Xx_SiErRa_xX

Alright there's this guy in my school who I THINK I may really like, but I'm not sure. I've known him since last year and I'm pretty sure he likes me I've seen a few signs, but nothing major. We've flirted a very teeny bit, but that's it. I'm very fresh to this whole dating process. I've only had 1 bf before and it was more out of pity, and cruelty (another girl that liked him was close by when he asked me and she was always very mean to me). I know that sounds awful, but he was using me to get closer to someone else. So anyways WHAT DO I DO!?!?!

You guys know I was talking about my ex here right? Not the current dude.

MissV · 10-18-2007, 01:47 AM

Woman up and tell him you like him

Xx_SiErRa_xX · 10-18-2007, 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by tessa_s212

Have you considered waiting until you are older? Most guys your age(guessing about 14?) are simply not mature enough to trully care about another person and treat them kindly. If you don't want to get hurt, your best bet is to wait two years or so until you can find a guy that has finally matured and is willing ot be committed to someone, instead of playing all those silly dating games or simply looking for sex.

I am NOT looking for sex.....ew *shudders*

tessa_s212 · 10-18-2007, 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Xx_SiErRa_xX

I am NOT looking for sex.....ew *shudders*

Good for you!

But have you considered that some guys might be? And being young and female is hard when you're being pressured for sex.. and at worst, some guys really take advantage of girls.

Just be careful.. take care of yourself, ok? I don't want you to get hurt of have regrets. I've personally waited to date. I got my first boyfriend at 17 and we plan on being married in about three years. Waiting until I was older really benefited me.. so I th ought I'd suggest it. By no means do you have to take that advice, but whatever you do decide, remember to take care of yourself, k?

Xx_SiErRa_xX · 10-18-2007, 02:29 AM

can do....unless sum desparate guy.....nvm