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07-12-2011, 05:09 AM
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#1 | | Member
Name: Joesph McCann Join Date: Apr 2011 Posts: 287
Money: 4,940 Last Online: 05-20-2013 11:50 PM | Lust vs Love Im being curious here.
So, if you were in love with someone and yet, youd know that really the relationship would be just sex, is it worth it?  |
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07-12-2011, 05:12 AM
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Name: Leen Gender: Female Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Germany Posts: 416
Money: 4,607 Last Online: 11-28-2011 08:58 PM My Mood: | Re: Lust vs Love Nope. If I really had feelings for him and knew he couldn't give me more than sex... noe. I'd just try to make him love me too, and if that doesn't work, well, bad luck. But you shouldn't have sex with someone you love with knowing that they don't have the same feelings for you. It's very unhealthy to your soul. :/
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07-12-2011, 05:14 AM
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#3 | | Super Senior Member
Name: Alaan Gender: Male Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 1,202
Money: 68,126 Last Online: 04-22-2012 09:32 AM My Mood: | Re: Lust vs Love You totally read my post in the topic right below this one didn't you? Second thread in two days that I spawned. Go me! You may now return to your regularly scheduled discussion.
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07-12-2011, 05:30 AM
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#4 | | Elite Member
Gender: Female Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 3,524
Money: 23,974 Last Online: 03-08-2013 09:42 PM | Re: Lust vs Love No.
It will hurt like hell (probably).
Better nothing then extra feelings sex usually brings. |
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07-12-2011, 05:08 PM
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#5 | | New Member
Name: Emily Gender: Female Join Date: May 2011 Location: Edinbrugh Posts: 81
Money: 1,894 Last Online: 10-13-2011 02:01 AM My Mood: | Re: Lust vs Love nah, whats the point if the relationship is only going to last untill that end. it would end if either party didnt give out and it would end if they did. who actualy wins?
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07-12-2011, 08:23 PM
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#6 | | New Member
Name: Charlea Gender: Female Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 8
Money: 289 Last Online: 07-13-2011 09:16 PM My Mood: | Re: Lust vs Love From personal experience, it gets a huge 'NO!' from me. Personally, I've found that it's hard to open yourself up sexually to someone without romantic feelings developing to some extent. It doesn't matter how hard you try, I think it's just in human nature to react that way. But that's just me.
So, in short... if you're an emotional person like me, I would definitely say don't try it. If you're not, you may react differently. All I can do is speak from personal experience. Hope it helps (: |
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07-13-2011, 05:39 AM
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#7 | | Member
Name: Joesph McCann Join Date: Apr 2011 Posts: 287
Money: 4,940 Last Online: 05-20-2013 11:50 PM | Re: Lust vs Love possible to fall in love with someone a lot more than what you expected after sex? It kind of would bond a couple closer no matter how far aprt do you think? |
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07-13-2011, 06:51 PM
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#8 | | New Member
Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 32
Money: 498 Last Online: 05-10-2012 09:07 AM | Re: Lust vs Love You can't be in love with someone if all you're going to have is sex. Love is something completely different. It's a special connection between too people. It doesn't need physical things like sex. So basically, no. It's not worth it. Because it's not a real relationship and you're just gonna hurt yourselves. |
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07-13-2011, 11:08 PM
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#9 | | Beautiful Disaster
Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 36,916
Money: 2,571,787 | Re: Lust vs Love No not at all. A relationship is based on BOTH intimacy and communication/support. If it's just about sex that isn't a relationship. That's called friends with benefits... |
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