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Old 10-21-2007, 06:08 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Question GF is confusing me!! HELP!

I'm 16 and mature for my age and my girlfriend is a normal 15 year old. I feel like I'm the only one actually interested in the relationship because she never calls or texts me, i have to first. When we talk on the phone she's always distracted and doesn't focus on the convo.
We went to a dinner thing and we both dressed up nice. I said she looked beautiful and then asked her how i looked. she just said "meh, ok" i felt hurt.
i do like her and don't want the relationship to end, but am confused as to whether i should talk to her about it or not. Before i asked her out (about 1 month ago) she said she was ready to kill herself, so I'm worried that if i do end it, she might do something drastic.

I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!
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Old 10-21-2007, 06:17 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: GF is confusing me!! HELP!

why do you like her if she's treating you like crap?

maybe you're depressing her even more? lol

why don't you ask her what she thinks of you overall, etc.
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Old 10-21-2007, 09:49 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: GF is confusing me!! HELP!

talk to her about it. ask her how does she feel about u and why does she treat u like that. get to know all the facts and then decide what to do next. if she doesnt likes u should just end the relationship. sorry, but that would be the best for u both.
or maybe she just act like that because she has some problems or something. in that case ... well, u know
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Re: GF is confusing me!! HELP!

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talk to her about it. ask her how does she feel about u and why does she treat u like that. get to know all the facts and then decide what to do next. if she doesnt likes u should just end the relationship. sorry, but that would be the best for u both.
or maybe she just act like that because she has some problems or something. in that case ... well, u know
That is what I was going to say.

I think Cold_Girl said it all. Hope it works out for you.
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Re: GF is confusing me!! HELP!

Cold girl was right about that you need to communicate with her. However, I will add that though you think yourself to be quite mature.. well, you are still both young and I honestly wouldn't expect much if I were you. It is likely things won't be fixed, and in that case, you need to do what is best for you. Be sensitive, don't do anything too hurtful..but to put off breaking up with her just because you are afraid she will hurt herslef may actually be more damaging. You can only really be responsible for yourself. What she does is her own business. You can't feel responsible for her actions. All the more you can do is try to be kind and caring while also looking out for yourself. What she does after that.. that is up to her.

EDA: However, if you do break up and you are still very much reasonably concerned, don't be afraid to talk to the school or her parents. Even if YOU can't take care of her, someone else can look after her and make sure she's safe.. even if she hates you for it... at least she'll be safe.

Sorry for this.. you seem good looking for a relationship in which there's actual communication and mutual respect. That's good. But, its my own personal advice if that is what you are looking for.. honestly, maybe wait a two or so years before you start deciding to date again.. when you are older, the girls are older, adn the relationship sare much more likely to be mature, lasting relationship.s
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