Welcome to Teen Forums, an online teen forum community
where you can join over thousands of teenagers discussing things related to Teens including teen help and teen advice.
You're
currently viewing the teen forums as a guest with features such as Photos, Games and Journals disabled. To gain full access to Teen Forums you must register for a free
account. As a registered member you will be able to:
Full forum
access including image viewing, posting and private messaging.
Communicate
privately with other teenagers from around the world.
Gain access to
our unique profile system and other social networking features.
Post your own
photos in our gallery or view other user submitted images.
Unlimited access
to Arcade Games.
Blogging,
writing and commenting.
All this and much
more is available to you when you
register for an account.
Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free, so
join our community today!
Ok, so, sorry this is kinda long, but anyways....
I had a bit of a fling with a guy in his early twenties. It lasted for about 3 or 4 months, and finished about 3 weeks ago when he moved to Geneva (I live in New Zealand, so that's the other side of the world...) When we started out we thought it was just gonna be a bit of fun, and no-one knew about us for the first bit, but I definately got emotionally involved, and I'm pretty sure he did too. I also have this close guy friend, who's a bit younger than me but is really sweet and we've been friends for quite a while now. The older guy left for Geneva in the middle of the school hols, and I was really upset. So younger guy and I made out a bit. I guess I was looking for a distraction, and a couple of people have said they think he likes me. In retro-spect it was probably a really bad idea, but I enjoyed it, and would probably do it again, even though I really miss older guy. But yeah, that was about two weeks ago and over the last few days younger guy keeps letting me down. I have an exam at the end of this week and he said he'd help me with some cadences, but he keeps suddenly deciding he can't because "he has too much stuff to do", which is possible, but I just wanted one hour, and i thought he might've been able to reshuffle the stuff that wasnt urgent to help me out. And older guy has been pretty distant. I know he's probably really busy, but it feels awful to be so disconnected from him.
So yeah, any thoughts on what I should do?
forget about older guy. he's not making time for you and he lives too far from you. younger guy seems to be brushing you off as well. if he can't make an effort to give you more attention, than he's not worth your time either.