Girl more then a firend.

sdizzle · 10-22-2007, 10:54 AM

There is this girl i havn't recently started talking too. We instantly hit it off great, talked alot, meeting up at school (college) and eveything. I started to like her and she started to like me and we told eachother this, problem is, she wants to remain freinds because she says relationships ruin everything. But i would like to get to know her a little better and it seems like she dosn't want that at all. I want to respect her decsion but what should i do?

Phuck Buddy · 10-22-2007, 11:32 AM

if you can deal with just being her friend, than just be her friends and perhaps over time she may come around.

tessa_s212 · 10-22-2007, 05:43 PM

Do whatever you want.

You want to respect her decision, then do it!

No questions asked, not "what's in it for me?". Just do it. Do it because you are a good person that chooses to respect others.

If its meant to be, over time it is those kinds of caring, love and respect filled actions that will win her over. If its not, it makes you all the better person for respecting her decision and looking first after her interests and wants instead of your own.

sdizzle · 10-22-2007, 07:33 PM

Thank you tessa, im gonna try that. However, is it normal to feel jealous towards her?

tessa_s212 · 10-24-2007, 01:57 AM

Yes, I would say it is normal. My boyfriend IS with me, and he still sometimes can feel protective and jealous. However, it is important to not let those feelings take over. Yes, it is okay to feel them, not always so much to let them dictate and base your actions off of them.