hey- some people might think this is pretty stupid but here goes :-

well i split up with my boyfriend of 6 months a week and a half ago. he started off saying we should split up and stuff but i said we could make a go of it, eventually though i realised i couldnt do this anymore as ive spent the last month worrying about the state of the reltionship. so anyway, he started saying why we should split up- and he said that he'd been thinking about it ever since i got back from my holiday (in august!) at the time i accepted it- but when i got back home i started to think about it properly and some things just dont make sense. well since i got back from holiday we'd had sex a couple of times- does that mean he was just using me? and he told me he loved me once after i got back- was he lying? does it mean whenever he said that he loved me that he was lying?

to be honest i didnt see the split coming- because i just closed my eyes to all the bad things in our relationship. about a week before the split he was on about me going to his and going to the cinema in the upcoming holidays. so im confused why he said all this- when as he said- he been wanting to split up with me for some time. i was at his house a couple of days before the split and everything seemed fine- and we did 'stuff'. i feel dirty thinking about it now because i think perhaps he was using me then aswell.

can someone please help me what to think???

thanku x

**edit by PB**

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Did he say he loved you before you got back on holiday? If he said it before, he probably still had feelings for you. Even though he had those feelings, he might not have seen a future dating you. That doesnt' mean he stopped caring about you.

It is possible though that he also used to to have sex or continue having sex with you. Not enough info to decide if he used you or not.

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