Stuck

StruckandDown · 10-26-2007, 09:30 AM

Okay theres this girl who I really like and I have liked her for about 2 years now. We've been friends for awhile and theres definitely sexual chemestry and a lot of other stuff we have in common. But she has a boyfriend, who is one of my good friends. He's asked me if I liked her (out of complete curiosity I hope, otherwise he's on 2 me) and ofcourse I denied it. But I hate lieing 2 my friends. And I think I like her and deserve her more than he does. The problem is she seems to really like him too. What should I do!?

Teh|T · 10-26-2007, 09:48 AM

Well, I don't think that you can just tell you friend that you like her. Because then you might loose a friend. And if theres sexual chemestry, then I don't think she really likes your friend. Well you could just wait and see how things go. If you do not want to wait, then uhh.... Well its either your friend or the girl. Thats if she really is into you. I need more info.

Goddess of Judecca · 10-26-2007, 09:49 AM

I don't know what you can do. She's got a boyfriend. So, until they break up or she says she likes you, there's nothing at all you can do. I don't know what exactly it is you want help with.

~Maggot

Teh|T · 10-26-2007, 09:50 AM

I say just wait.

Angelwings411 · 10-26-2007, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by StruckandDown

Okay theres this girl who I really like and I have liked her for about 2 years now. We've been friends for awhile and theres definitely sexual chemestry and a lot of other stuff we have in common. But she has a boyfriend, who is one of my good friends. He's asked me if I liked her (out of complete curiosity I hope, otherwise he's on 2 me) and ofcourse I denied it. But I hate lieing 2 my friends. And I think I like her and deserve her more than he does. The problem is she seems to really like him too. What should I do!?

Dude. She is your friend's girlfriend, which would be off limits.
Besides, there is nothing you can do if she likes him, you are just going to have to find away to like her as a friend I guess.
You are acting rather selfish as well saying "I deserve her more than he does." What kind of friend says something like that?

You should be happy for your friend that he has a great girl like her.

Phuck Buddy · 10-26-2007, 10:56 AM

well...you're screwed.

since she really likes him, if you go for her, and she rejects you...than you lost your friend and her as a gf. You don't get to decide if you are more deserving of her affection than your friend...she gets to decide that. Maybe she has a sister or a good friend you can get along with?

sheer58 · 10-27-2007, 02:11 AM

you should forget about her because i think your friend is more important ...it's hard but you've got to move on not just because she is a friend's girlfriend you also say that she likes him a lot... so try to meet other girls...it might help...from my experience if in this kind of situation you'll try to develop something you'll feel bad even more than you already feel...

StruckandDown · 10-28-2007, 04:40 AM

That wasnt me being selfish Angel. He treats her like crap ; whenever I see her she is sad over something he did or something he said to her. I don't want to meet another girl, cuz I think I'm in love with her.

I_Am_A_Mystery · 10-28-2007, 05:48 AM

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Originally Posted by StruckandDown

That wasnt me being selfish Angel. He treats her like crap ; whenever I see her she is sad over something he did or something he said to her. I don't want to meet another girl, cuz I think I'm in love with her.

If he treats her like crap why doesn't she dump him?

As long as she is with him there is nothing you can do, if you don't want to lose him as a friend. I guess try to find another girl or just wait until they break up.

paa13 · 10-28-2007, 09:34 AM

i know tht feeling cause my friend knew i liked this one girl and asked her out before i got the chance (when they broke up i lost all intrest in her by then) but since it is your friend, i have to say just wait, u can lose a friend or the girl, or maybe both if u act to fast, nd besides if u wait u may find someone better

Cheese Monkey · 10-28-2007, 06:42 PM

if he treats her like crap then tell her to dump him like a bag of trash

and then be there for her and comfort her and make sure she is ok and then maybe she will become your girlfriend

sheer58 · 10-28-2007, 08:31 PM

So if he treats her like crap you can help her get out of this relationship and then support her till she will feel better...and maybe after all this story ends she will become your girlfriend...

Mayank · 10-31-2007, 09:28 PM

Back off dude. You will lose two friends if you tell the girl. The girl will reject and tell this to her boyfriend. Remember girls usually don't hide things from their boyfriends. You have already lied to your friend by denying that you like this girl. Forget her or wait till they break up.