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First off, im a really outgoing and flirty guy. My friends say im a player because i don't like to go into relationships, but I do love girls.. So i hook up at almost every party i go to, and every weekend I take a different girl to the movies or out somewhere to chill. But this is a little different...
This weekend was homecoming, I took a girl i've known for a long time, were just good friends (she has a boyfriend at the high school she goes to, other than mine).
The dance was kick ass, i was dancing with my date for a while, she started grinding on me and all that but u know, because of the whole friend thing that didn't really catch my attention. But later she sat down, and I went over to a group of my friends that are in band(all girls) and i started dancing with this one girl(i know her, i have 2 classes with her, but we've never been good friends) I was just dancing with her and a few of her friends I know (like the whole dancing in a circle thing). But you know how shit just kinda happens without u really realizing whats happening? Well we kinda drifted away a little, to the point where she was grinding on me. So were having fun, then i put my hands on her hips. This is were it starts to get good.
She holds my hands, and starts grinding like... HARDCORE. (Shes a flaggirl and a dancer so it was insanely awesome for me. ) Then she takes my hands and starts me feeelin her up.
So we dance for a good 30 minutes like this, and I take off to go back with my date cuz i saw she was sitting at a table with her friend (who i also took, i kinda had 2 dates...) and started dancing with her again..
Next thing i know, im grinding with my date and the girl i was dancing with before starts dancing next to me, and her friend starts grinding on me behind me... so now im sandwiched from all sides by beautiful girls... but thats not the point..
What im asking is, I like this girl, ive liked her for a while(as in when i saw her she caught my attention and I've flirted with her a few times) but i dont have her number, and were not good friends, but i have her on my mind now since the dance..
What she did, was it just a kinda, since were dancing lets have some fun kinda thing, one night only? Or can I use it to my advantage and make a move and maybe ask her out to the movies on the weekend? What do you all think? Let me know!
u mean u like the flaggirl? i dont know but i think she just wanna has some fun
the decision is up to u =)
do what u feel comfortable with
if u really like the girl, just go for it
no loss for trying it
yeh the whole point was the flaggirl
the other girl and i have just had this thing 4 each other for a long time, but we havnt dated
yeah i guess i hear what ur saying, but i dont wanna make an ass of myself
IF
she was just having some fun
cuz i can live wit dat ;D
well did you notice at the dance if the flaggirl was doing the same stuff to other guys? If she wasnt then obviously she wants you or maybe just for that night.
I think you should just start talking to her and see if she keeps up with the flirting, who knows maybe she wants more from you.
yeh i was the ONLY guy she danced with all night
cuz she didnt have a date to homecoming.. so she went with her band girlfriends.
but yeh new update to the whole situation
her bestfriend and i have known each other since middle school, and yeh she is really into me, so im askin her out to the movies this weekend. and Hopefully she'll be down
but yeh i gotta give that guy with the "mixed messages" thread props
cuz this with me was some major mixed messages hahah