What should i do?

dam_boi · 10-29-2007, 05:09 PM

Ok. so ive been with my partner for about 7 months now. about 70% of the time im so happy and we have so much fun together, he treats me really well and makes me feel so loved and wanted. but there is that other 30% where im so depressed. he treats me like shit. makes me feel like im nothing. i do every thing for him, and as soon i say no or can you do it your self he cracks at me. im always depressed and he continuoulsy tells me to go and see a doctor. the only reason i get like taht is becasue of the way he talks to me. i keep telling my slef i cant do this any more but i love him so much. i cant imajine my self with out him. i have no idea what to do.

HELP

Phuck Buddy · 10-29-2007, 09:38 PM

is 70% good enough for you? probably not since you're posting here.

did you try telling him why your depressed? maybe if you told him you don't like it when he (insert all the reasons here), than he might try to cut back.

If he's uncaring about it, or refuses any blame....dump him. no matter how much he promises to change afterward is a bullshit, so dont take him back either.

jolynn_ching · 10-30-2007, 01:42 AM

i think the guy is just trying to have some fun with u
once u said no, he will feel unpleasant
ive tried that before and i know its really hard coz u love the guy very much
but think about it...do u really love the guy?
because when u love someone, u supposed to be happy
or maybe u already get used to be along with him and u dont want to let him go
well theres a lot of better and hot guys outside...sure u will find someone better =)
let go of it if it doesnt belong to u..maybe u will feel happier that way

p/s : this is just an advice...decision is up to u...do the way that u will comfortable with.