Barely dating and he's just 'gone off' me???

xxUrs_Trulyxx · 10-31-2007, 04:15 AM

so, why is it that a guy might spend the most amazing night with you, spend days trying to get your number, take you on the most amazing dates, tell you all the time how much fun you are and how pretty he thinks you are, take you back to his place when he never takes girls there, let you spend the day with him and his beautiful baby boy, tell u that he can't get enough of you... and then all of a sudden stop talking to you???
its soooo frustrating....
...i really really like this one too

...help?

Goddess of Judecca · 10-31-2007, 05:10 AM

Call me crazy, but maybe - just MAYBE - talking to him would be a good idea. SHOCKING, I KNOW. My fucking god.

~Maggot

Bubbles · 10-31-2007, 06:53 AM

Yeahhh, no one here can help you. You have to talk to him about it.
Let us know though?

xxUrs_Trulyxx · 10-31-2007, 07:02 AM

so yeah ive texted him asking how hes is..
you know just in case theres been a misunderstanding
....no reply.
hour or so later i asked if i'd said/done something wrong...
...still no reply
I'm not sure what to think..
I was just wondering if theres any reason that guys might seem to lose interest all of a sudden like that, i've heard of it happening before..

Bubbles · 10-31-2007, 07:03 AM

I don't know. I can't think of a reason, because he sounded like he was totally digging you. Just wait and see if you get a reply. Hopefully you'll get one soon!

xxUrs_Trulyxx · 10-31-2007, 07:11 AM

thanks heaps

im just stuck at home by myself all tha time freakng out about this its pretty sad lol but thanks

Bubbles · 10-31-2007, 07:18 AM

Don't get too freaked out about it. Either there's something going on, or he's just a dick.

xxUrs_Trulyxx · 10-31-2007, 07:36 AM

haha true, i wouldnt be obsessing like this if i didnt think he was just leading me on the whole time, but i do get that its a possibility

Bubbles · 10-31-2007, 07:38 AM

Who knows. No one but him, so hopefully he speaks up soon. Best of luck

Foxy · 10-31-2007, 09:05 AM

hmmm...
if i were you i would stop talking to him...
for two different reasons.
A. He's an asshole not worthy of your time
B. He might feel "overwhelmed" by you (if you text him constantly for example) and he needs a lil downtime before he can be 'amazing' again

Pressed in a Book · 10-31-2007, 11:11 AM

He has a kid?

xxUrs_Trulyxx · 10-31-2007, 12:26 PM

well ive given him a week or so, i try not ta text too much cos i cant stand clingy people like that.. also he was the one trying to make dates every other day...
Yeah he has a gorgeuos baby boy that he pays child support for and looks after about once a week i think..

so he has texted me... but ignoring what i said to him. we made kinda chit-chat conversaition which didnt amount to much..
i asked if he was ok and he said he has loads of stuff to sort out..
i'm gnna give him some space and if he doesnt wanna see me again in the next week or so i think ill just forget about it..

Ammon · 10-31-2007, 04:35 PM

*Picks up notepad and pen* $5 says he's getting back together with his baby's momma. ;x

.Angelique. · 10-31-2007, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by xxUrs_Trulyxx

so, why is it that a guy might spend the most amazing night with you, spend days trying to get your number, take you on the most amazing dates, tell you all the time how much fun you are and how pretty he thinks you are, take you back to his place when he never takes girls there, let you spend the day with him and his beautiful baby boy, tell u that he can't get enough of you... and then all of a sudden stop talking to you???
its soooo frustrating....
...i really really like this one too

...help?

He probably just wanted to sleep with you. Sorry.

Phuck Buddy · 10-31-2007, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Jia-Ren-Qu

He probably just wanted to sleep with you. Sorry.

I was thinking the same thing....sorry