Hi! I'm 16 years old and I'd really like you to help me to get over this situation.

At the end of the august I and my 2 friend met 2 girls at spa. One of them is my best friend-his name is Alex and we know each other for 15 years. I have met the other one(John) 1 week ago and he was staying at my Aleks's house. So we went to the spa and met those 2 girls. We got their e-mails and phone numbers but John was quiet all the time. John went back home soon. He lives 300km away. Soon Alex started to date with one of them. We all agreed to come to our friend Mark at his party. So I saw them again and I imidiatly feel in love in a girl, whose friend was Aleks's girlfriend. I told her my feelings one week later but she said that she doesn't feel the same as I do. I was depressed but I said that I'll get over it. So after 2 mounths John came again to Aleks's house. We picked him up at the trainstation. I really couldn't understand why did she go with us. Then we went for a drink and I needed to go on a toilet. When I came back I saw them kissing!!! I couldn't belive my eyes! Alex knew about that and he didn't tell me. He knew how much I love her! Instead of being quiet at least, he was telling me how are they going to his house and are giong to have some fun. And he invited me to go with them. And that should be my best friend! He was making fun of me and my feelings. After 2 days John went back home. I don't now what to do! I don't think that he loves her. He has only seen her for 2 times. I think that he's with her just for fun and that's really not fair. And whenever he'll come, she'll go back to him no matter how hard I try to get her.

I really feel so loney and sad. I thought that friends are here for help. And that sadness is even bigger when you know that your real love loves your friend, who lives 300km away and it's just with her cause she's hot! I would feel better if he lived near her. Then I could think that they are happy couple in love. It would be easier for me! Now I don't feel ok and every day is a picture of them kissing torturing me. I can't sleep well and it makes me cry when I think of it.


Ps.: Sorry for my english, you may find some mistakes

Sorry mate, cant understand a word of it
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That's ridiculous. You can't love someone as soon as you see them. Do you even know this girl?

~Maggot

ok...the english messed me up a little but i think I got it.

the girl didn't like you, so you need to move on. she liked that other guy...it happens. your friend probably didnt tell you because he knew it would be upset. You need to find another girl and move on

--Actual advice was here =o--

**edit by PB--inappropriate material**