ok.well there's this boy who came to my school year last year and he's younger than i am..and i've always told myself i wont date someone younger than myself,and i stayed true to that.but he really liked me,well he said it and showed it a lot!and a lot of people were saying that we go out and i was always like no,we dont.but like i did start to grow feelings for him (unfortunately) the out of no where he has a girlfriend.so im like wtf.but that didnt change his feelings "so he say" for me.i kind of feel bad for not telling him to leave me alone because he has a gf but i dont give a phukk.its not like we're going out,he just happens to do a lot of flirting.he asked me to our school dance and i agreed,but i dont know if i should have.im trying to figure out if i should pursue something with him at this point or not.and he always says he loves me,like alllllllllllll the time,it gets a little weird,but its sweet and i just dont know what should i do.
anyone with some advice???

so he asked you to the dance....what happenned to the girlfriend? why isnt he taking her?

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she doesnt go to our school, but its well known that he has one.everyone knows that.like vday he gave me alot of flowers..and everyone was like wow.....but she goes to another school!

so if he likes you, and makes a move...and you like him back, then you need to tell him to break up with his gf

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how much younger is he? i feel sorry for the girlfriend , you should ask him straight what he wants from you

a year younger, but you'll never know.im like a real big kid.and its not just any dance its homecoming.and thats the biggest dance at my school besides prom which he's not going to,so thats why the question of why isnt he taking his girlfriend come up.he told me the reason why he have that girlfriend is because i always turned him down so it came to a point in time where he couldnt deal with the "heartbreak" any more.but i have told him to stop with the whole flirting thing and all that because i feel bad for his girlfriend and he's like ok, i'll try,but the next day he was back to doing the same day.and i almost sure he does have strong feelings for me because one of my friends asked him would he break up with her if i said i'd go with him and he smiled and was like but she wont (as in i wont) which i wont, well i dont want to!
*confused!*

No matter what the excuse is or how he treats you, "i have a girlfriend" still means "i have a girlfriend". You never wanna be seen as a homewrecker. I would totally be getting the same message as you are. But you need to ask yourself, if he likes me so much, why won't he dump his girlfriend? I would step waayyy back from this situation. If he really likes you, he'll see that he can't have his cake and eat it too. He'll dump his gf and pursue you. And if he doesn't....he was only looking for some company on the side. good luck!

thanks..that made me really think and smile to myself.thats so true!
cant have his cake and eat it too..son of a ........
(lol)

haha glad i could help!

tell his g/f to go find another guy, because hes yours.. that what i would do if i were you. Go for him, if you like him..

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lol.well i dont know her but yea.this whole thing is weird.and wow,you being a guy saying that is quite interesting!