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11-01-2007, 02:38 PM
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What am i doing wrong?
I'm a senior in high school, yet i've never been on a date, or got my first kiss. I'm not some weirdo freak girl, nor am i a super-nerd. I would probably rate myself at about a 6 or 7 on the popularity chain, with 10 being the highest. I have quite a few friends, some of them cheerleaders even. Lots of my friends and a lot of adults say i'm pretty, and i think so too, yet i've only been asked out 3 times in my life: once as a joke, once by the school perv, and once by this really annoying kid. And everytime i like a guy, and end up asking to "hang out" with him, he rejects me for no reason, other than "i'm not the kind of girl i'd like to date". Can anyone give me some advice?
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11-01-2007, 03:28 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
how old are you?
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11-01-2007, 04:21 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
i thought it would be obvious since i said i'm a senior in high school, but i guess not... i'm 17, soon to be 18
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11-01-2007, 04:24 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
Be creative...
With a gun.
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11-01-2007, 06:43 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
uhh... not the kind of advice i'm looking for lol
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11-01-2007, 08:19 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
hh, the hard one. i really dont know how to help you.
well, you can try asking one of your friends to help you; they know you better and they can find you someone.
but you probably don't want that because you're asking for an advice here. well, next time you meet someone you like try finding out what kinda girls he likes and try being that girl. and later if you start dating, after some time show him real you. well, dont make it like you were lying to him just show him all your sides.
i hope i helped. good luck. 
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11-01-2007, 08:20 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
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uhh... not the kind of advice i'm looking for lol
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I don't know then...
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Are you a transexual?
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11-01-2007, 09:15 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
you need to flirt...pick a guy you like and flirt
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11-02-2007, 07:14 AM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
Maybe guys are intimidated by you?
Try being friendly, smile, flirt.
By the sounds of it there's nothing wrong with you, I'm guessing guys just haven't taken notice in you. Give it time, guys are slow remember? 
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11-02-2007, 10:00 AM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
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Originally Posted by BirdofParadise
Maybe guys are intimidated by you?
Try being friendly, smile, flirt.
By the sounds of it there's nothing wrong with you, I'm guessing guys just haven't taken notice in you. Give it time, guys are slow remember? 
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Bingo.
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11-02-2007, 12:41 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
put yourself out there
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11-02-2007, 05:33 PM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
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Originally Posted by bluetigress
I'm a senior in high school, yet i've never been on a date, or got my first kiss. I'm not some weirdo freak girl, nor am i a super-nerd. I would probably rate myself at about a 6 or 7 on the popularity chain, with 10 being the highest. I have quite a few friends, some of them cheerleaders even. Lots of my friends and a lot of adults say i'm pretty, and i think so too, yet i've only been asked out 3 times in my life: once as a joke, once by the school perv, and once by this really annoying kid. And everytime i like a guy, and end up asking to "hang out" with him, he rejects me for no reason, other than "i'm not the kind of girl i'd like to date". Can anyone give me some advice?
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There's nothing wrong with you at all.
I was a junior in highschool, never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been on a date. I'd been flirted with a lot, asked out a few times by perverts, but never had a boyfriend. I decided to stop even thinking about guys for a long time. I had a "no dating" rule until after highschool because every relationship I saw in highschool was pathetic and meaningless.
I do now have a boyfriend, but I'm SOO glad I didn't have tons of boyfriends before him. He's my first boyfriend, we've been together 8 months(and they've ZOOMED by!), and have already discussed our futures together. To think that my first boyfriend, my first kiss, the first person I ever loved is going to be my husband.. there's just something special about that.
Really, there's nothing wrong with you. When it comes to highschool guys(and girls), most don't know enough about themselves or about responsibilities to last long. I'd rather not break my heart a million times over stupid guys. Just wait, you'll start meeting more mature, responsible young men once you are out of highschool and find someone you could have a relationship with. And it will be much better than any highschool relationship you might have ever had. 
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11-13-2007, 06:53 AM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
I have the same problem as you, i am told that girls would find me attractive and whenever girls try to talk to me, i try hard to make a good conversation but still i get no results  Do you have msn or aim or something like that?
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11-13-2007, 07:52 AM
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Re: What am i doing wrong?
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