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Well there's this girl i really like at school. Im in year 11' so she and we're both 15. I've wanted to ask her out for a while now but just cant seem to bring myself to do it. I dont want her too take it the wrong way if you know what i mean. The thing is she is one of the clever ones at school and im in lower sets (one of the not so clever ones, but not dumb lol!). I havent even had my first kiss yet and it was 3 years ago when i last had a gf and that wasnt even a propper relationship. I think its because i've always been put down over the years for not having and gf and stuff that i cant seem to do it. Today i had two perfectly good times to ask her out and just could bring myself to do it but the truth is i dont really know what to say to her, whether its "Do you want to go out sometime?" or "Will you go out with me?" or what.

I know it sounds stupid but i dont know what to do and im not even sure if she has a bf or not but i dont think she does. Has anyone got any advice??? Thanks!!!

why dont you try and talk to her and ask her about herself find out if shes single and if she is ask her if she wants to meet up with you out of school if and when she meets up with you out of school meet her a few times n just find out about her and then when your ready ask her if she wants to be with you...i feel exactly the same about a boy that i know and were really close friends but i want us to be more than friends and dont know how to tell him anyway much love kira x x x

just ask her if she wants to go out with you. be yourself. if she likes you, she will say yes

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Just ask her, it probably better knowing than not knowing, and if she says no ask someone else out anyway *is feeling like Dr Phil*

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It's ok to put yourself out there!

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its the asking her your frightened of?

just have a bit of dutch courage and go for it! or else you'll regret it, don't take life so seriosuly and just do it

I will try and ask her if i get another chance but the other problem is she's only in two classes of mine a week and i can only talk to her in one class because she doesnt sit near me in the other. Any advice there???

ask her at lunch or break she might not want to answer you truthfully in class with people around her

Whatever you do don't ask her out over the internet...always do it face to face.

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Definitely ask her alone so she's not put on the spot in front of other people. But do it very casually. Say you're having a fun conversation and you just throw in "hey, we should hang out sometime." Don't say negative things like "You wouldn't want to hang out would you?" that makes you seem less confident. Just go for it!

I didnt see her today so i will see what happens on monday.

Good luck

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