Need some advice. please...

gohomegetstoned · 11-04-2007, 10:43 AM

Okay so there's this girl that im going after and I need some advice. I really like her a lot and i want to ask her out, but it might be too early. We hung out this weekend and she seems interested, but I dont know for sure.. whats a way that i can see if she likes me? i would ask her but for some reason i dont feel comfortable doing that yet. also when we hung out 2nite i talked to her a lot when i got there but then i got high and didnt really talk to her again. was this a bad move?

please tell me how i can get closer to her. should i try to make a move and take us further or what? sry if there are errors im still a little blazed

thanks if u help, cya

EDIT: read my post a few posts below

rollercoasterskittle · 11-04-2007, 11:19 AM

Well.. I think you should get to know her a lot better before you try anything because you don't want to rush into anything and scare her away. Get to know what she likes and dislikes. Take her somewhere you would both enjoy being so it's not a one way thing. Show her what kind of person you are too so you can see if she likes you for you. You don't want to get into anything that could hurt you.

As for the getting high thing, it could be seen as bad. It really depends on what you think and her as well.

Just be yourself and hopefully everything will go your way.

Phuck Buddy · 11-04-2007, 01:09 PM

try flirting with her

supshortyyy · 11-04-2007, 09:21 PM

i'd get to know her a little bit better. then maybe you'll feel comfortable asking her if she likes you or how she feels about you. if it will make you feel more comfortable get a small group & do something fun. idk if this is an option but me & a bunch of friends went camping last night and one of my friends got to know his crush better and asked her out last night. she said yes. idk, just do something where you can spend alot of time with her.

for the smoking thing, it all depends on how she feels about it. if she doesnt mind smoking or smokes then i doubt she'll care. if she does then it could be a bad move.

robb · 11-05-2007, 05:26 AM

Did she get high to?
Cus if she doesn't get stoned and you do she might just see you as a druggie and doesn't think you're serious.

gohomegetstoned · 11-05-2007, 07:55 AM

no she gets drunk, i get high. she doesnt look down on it... i look down on drinking though, ironically.

EDIT: She was just in a short awkward relationship with some other guy that i dont know and she MIGHT be getting with him again but i dont see why.. it seems so much like shes interested in me, i just cant figure out why shes going out with him. they didnt even talk at the party the other night.

Ammon · 11-05-2007, 08:00 AM

Chew some gum.

Icy fresh breath changes everything.

assassinROW · 11-05-2007, 08:04 AM

lol yes it does, it changes EVERYTHING.. so maybe she wont like him if you chew it.. and as her out before he does, early bird gets the bird..